4 daily habits that cause the destruction of our relationship, whether emotional, family or with friends and people:
1- Criticism:
Repeated criticism of people for the sake of improvement and guidance may be understood in negative and hurtful ways to others, this does not mean that we express our annoyance on the contrary, it is better to communicate what we want, but in a positive way that motivates the people around you to implement this by using the word
(I am)
Example: I got annoyed because you did this, I felt that I am not important to you
Then mention the solution
(Or what the other person is supposed to do)
I expected you to do this for me.
2- Underestimating others:
Underestimating the other at any level, social, cultural, aesthetic, certainly leads to the demolition of the relationship between you two
The solution: to move away completely from underestimating the other and following a policy of appreciation and respect.
3- Defensive position all the time
Always the other person is the culprit, and you never make mistakes and defend yourself all the time and make the other side the basis of all the problems that happen
The solution: Take at least a small part of the responsibility to find a solution to the problem or avoid placing the blame completely on the other person
4- Reaching the stage of isolation
Both sides withdraw from solving the problem, but rather isolate it at the beginning of it, because it would seem wrong as usual, and thus avoid talking and communicating completely.
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